How much affects people not being able to find their waist

Write: LIC.Ivonne Marmatopsychologist MP: 1698

Deciding to go shopping, dressing for a party or event or simply for the simple fact of making a taste, can become a problem for many.

A surveyed by the Argentine Anyboby NGO.A reflection on this reality is considered impossible.Also, it is impossible to claim compliance with the Size Law (Law No. 27.521) which was sanctioned in November 2019 and that establishes the creation of a single systemalizing system of identication of clothing sizes (SUNITI) corresponding to standardized body measures to the manufacture, clothing, commercialization and import of clothing aimed at the populationFrom 12 years.

The way we dress is an important complement to define as subjects in front of the rest, the clothing gives us a personal trait and not having the opportunity to choose it, we are facing a problem, since unable to opt for the clothing that weIt represents, that identifies us or that is fashionable, a latent anguish is generated on each occasion in which we need to acquire a new garment.

I consider that those who are most harmed by this situation are the public and adolescents.They, in fields of trust, refer a feeling of humiliation, shame and helplessness when it comes to finding a size to measure, in short, it is an experience of vulnerability that, if sustained over time, can generate symptoms or disorderIn his body image, with the concomitant risk of falling into food deconduct disorders.

Happily, the dominant aesthetic paradigm of extreme thinness is in the process of change, from social networks there are social movements that point against the system, to tear down the social stereotypes of extreme thinness and harmony in the body's forms and promote the acceptance of one's own Body.However, if the impossibility of choosing the clothes we like in our size persists, this does not reach, in my opinion, to generate sustained changes over time.

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What message is established in the pubers and adolescents who do not find tailored clothes?Probably, the notion that their body is defective, imperfect, or inappropriate begins to establish themselves in them.In a period of life where the identity of the "I" is in full construction process, this is transformed into a serious problem.

As described by the psychoanalyst Mercedes Vecslir “the identity of the 'I' is built throughout life, sustained from a basic matrix of identifications that belong and act as support and resistance to the impact of events that, without the existence of a wayStable organization, could restructure the subject.Identification work never ends, because the subject is not only built, but is transformed through identification processes ”.

The central role of peers

I want to emphasize that despite this situation of permanent discomfort when dressing that many teenagers suffer, it is observed that the peer group functions as an intersubjective framework that sustains and coconstructs subjectivities allowing many times the traumatic not to accrue in detention and destructuring,but in enrichment and greater complex psychic.The intersubjective specularity provided by the group, works as a containment and acceptance of the traumatic, the inexplicable, which causes anguish, are shared experiences that allow the adolescent not to feel isolated.

Finally, it is important to note that the indifferent look of adults in the face of this problem, only sustain the problem.